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Then, he cheated on me with another girl a few times, and got her pregnant. He said he was stupid and selfish; the girl in question is intense, delusional, and has borderline mental issues. I broke up with him for 2 months and he was hanging out with her trying to get to know the potential mother of his child. Please help me decipher this BS. Do I stick to my original plan and move overseas when this kid is born and have that experience — or do I stay?

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Real advice, stop thinking about a man and a family and learn to love being single. Because the kind of man you want to attract is attracted to strong women who don't need a man to be happy. Bam met my husband! OP don't regret your past, you love, you lose, you learn you grow. All helps to get you to where you are meant to be. Think new year, new you!

Get excited about what this year will bring! Exact same. Except I was about to move across the country and met my husband 3 weeks before I was going to leave, fell in love, and stayed. But what you say about learning to love being single and not looking, when I figured that out I then met the love of my life and was in the right place mentally to meet him and be ready for him. Married 2 years in Feb, happier than I could have ever imagined being, and also due with baby 2 in Feb.

I do agree with Sancti. Try to enjoy being single. Work hard and move out of your parents house. Your ex sounds like a real jerk so you are better if without him anyway. So glad you moved away! You can now focus on other things and get a fresh perspective on life in general. It does wonders for the mind and soul. I was in an abusive relationship about 11 years ago.

As for plans, I'm trying to improve my life. I'm going to start taking driving lessons next month so I can finally get my driver's license. I was always too worried to try driving before. I'm also looking at enrolling in medical school so i can work as a CNA or a medical assistant.

I am already studying for my GED and then will be taking an entrance exam for a medical school called Metropolitan Vo-Tech. I'm worried about it because I've never been good with tests. But yes, a change is good!

I'm hoping to have a much better life by the time I turn 30 next year. Despite the sort of depressing things you went through, I get this feeling that you are like a ball of energy. Perhaps write that question on your mirror. Those daily small steps add up fast.

You definitely did dodge a bullet with that situation. The universe has bigger plans for you! Keep us posted. It sounds like you dodged a bullet. You sound young, awfully young to be so focused on getting married and having babies. Can you get training or education in doing something you love? And enjoy making friends and dating around before you commit to a relationship with a not so nice guy? I agree with all these ladies. This man sounds like someone who was toxic for you.

Better off finding that out before marriage and kids. Take this time you find out who you are as an individual. Learn new hobbies and life will progress exactly as it should. I believe that once you aren't waiting for it it will come. As in sperm? I moved to another continent by myself with no family to get over someone who wasnt honest with me and i found out he had girlfriend already 5 years when we were together, we both were going to college on different schedule so he was able to hide it from me.

I even met his family and they never said anything. Just know he did you a favor, i have no regrets and my ex contacted me asking me to come back and wanted to get married, i would never do. You will forget about this idiot.

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Posting as. Report as Inappropriate. Delete Discussion? Are you sure you want to delete your discussion? This action cannot be undone. Delete Comment? Are you sure you want to delete your comment? Hot Topics. Community Guidelines Community Glossary. Just so you know, What to Expect may make commissions on shopping links on this page. Hi all. I don't know if anyone remembers me. I asked for advice over a year ago because my boyfriend got another girl pregnant while we were on a break, and the stress of him having the baby I've always dreamed of having with him with someone else was too much to handle.

Also since he started backpedaling on wanting kids with me in the distant future. Here is what has happened. Many of you advised me to be supportive of him and to get a grip on my anger. I did that and swallowed my pride trying to be as supportive and upbeat as possible about the situation, but I regret that now. Last Christmas, almost five months after his son was born, the other woman accepted a marriage proposal from her boyfriend of less than a year. Yes, this is the same boyfriend she met and began dating while pregnant with my boyfriend's son.

A few weeks later on my birthday which is only a few days before Christmas , he somewhat proposed to me with a promise ring and a promise to get engaged within the next few years. Not exactly what I wanted, but a step closer, so yay! Unfortunately it didn't last. Only months later, we got into a huge fight about him flirting with other girls at his nightclub job while I would be home cleaning his condo and cleaning up after his son visited who only ever visited whenever I had to work, despite my interest in meeting him.

He dumped me, kicked me out, and made me give back the promise ring too to boot. That was my only birthday present that year too and I had to give it back. I was stuck moving back with my parents and into a shared room with my youngest sister while my younger sister older than youngest moved out to live with HER boyfriend who she was engaged and pregnant by. I had no other choice for living arrangements because my retail job doesn't pay enough to qualify for an apartment on my own.

Meanwhile, my now ex boyfriend's baby mama got married only a month or so later, and is still happy with her husband, raising my ex boyfriend's son with him. My ex boyfriend already had a new girlfriend within a month after giving me the boot. Here I am, a year later.

Still single, still no kids, miserable. I have since decided to relocate across country to live with my dad. It was too much to handle, running into my ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend around town, or even having multiple younger siblings get engaged. I've learned my lesson: no more dads!!!! I'm sorry I ever gave a chance to my ex boyfriend, I should have blocked him for good once I found out he was having a baby by another woman, which I found out on my Christmas season birthday of all times 2 years ago.

Anyone who said I should give him a chance, maybe that worked for Gisele and Tom Brady although Gisele never actually dated Ton before he got that other girl pregnant, only dated him afterwards so the sting and betrayal didn't feel the same , or I guess a better example would be that maybe it worked for Gabrielle Union and Dwayne, but it didn't go well for me.

As I told my now ex boyfriend after he dumped me, whatever I want a guy without baggage. I want a guy who's first will also be my first. Never again will I settle for staying with a man who gives his gift of life to another woman! Newest First. Violation Reported. I moved across the country after a bad breakup. Show 5 Previous Comments.

He got another woman pregnant when we were together. Now, he wants me back.

I went storming off back home and he thought we were over, so decided he might as well go out with his mates. He met up with this girl in the pub. We both know her. She told me about it three weeks ago.

I feel like I've been hit by a freight train. I have no clue what to do.

Join now to personalize. My boyfriend got another girl pregnant. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. We have been planning our future and have decided to have a baby.

My Boyfriend Getting Another Woman Pregnant Was The Best Thing To Happen To Us

I found out my boyfriend got another girl pregnant. We were together for over 1 year broke up in January and started seeing eachother again in May until only last month until i relocated for work. I have just found out through facebook he is in another relationship with a woman and when i confronted him, it turned out he got her pregnant back in october while we were still in a commited relationship and the whole time hes been lying to me and cheating on us both. Shes just had the baby and I've never felt so hurt and betrayed. I really loved him and was percent loyal to him. He's devoted to this child now and in his messages he feels threatened and after i had the last word has told me not to tell the woman because he is worried he will not be able to see his son!! I am livid with how selfish he is. I don't know what to do, I wish i never got involved in this mess.

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant and I’m not sure I can cope with him having a love child

New readers, welcome to Dear Wendy, a relationship advice blog. She told him she got pregnant on the pill, which I think is a lot of cod wallop. I have tried to encourage him to stay with this woman soley because of this pregnancy, but he wants me and wants to marry me as he said all along, and he is furious with this woman for keeping the baby after only knowing each other two minutes. He told me he will obviously be paying for it but wants nothing to do with her OR the baby.

My heart is filled with joy and i do not know what to do that will be enough to thanks Doctor Okumu for reuniting my husband and i so i made i vow to myself yesterday that i will testify on the internet just to let the world know about the help rendered to me by Doctor Okumu. My name is Janella Lynn and i am from Canada, my husband left me because i cheated on him even when i tried to make him understand that i was sorry but he choose to move on and left me and our two kids.

We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. Real advice, stop thinking about a man and a family and learn to love being single.

Update on long ago situation with boyfriend getting another girl pregnant

I had been dating my boyfriend Rob for about a week when he made this pronouncement. Rob has never been anything other than totally upfront about his life. He is divorced, he is a dad to an autistic son, he survived a heart attack, and he is in a seven-year polyamorous relationship with his girlfriend. The guy was supposed to be my rebound, not my polyamorous boyfriend.

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I found out my boyfriend got another girl pregnant. We were together for ov...

My boyfriend and I lived in different states and after years together, my worst nightmare came true: he cheated on me and ended up having a baby with the other woman. One night, I found out that my long-term boyfriend had gotten another woman pregnant as part of a drunken hookup. How could he do this? How was he going to parent a child with someone he barely knew? He revealed his impending fatherhood in such a nonchalant way. It was like he was telling me what he was having for lunch. How could any soon-to-be-dad treat the arrival of a new life so lightly? I reacted as any woman would and completely shut him out.

Aug 11, - My boyfriend got another girl pregnant and wants to keep our relationship secret I have been in and out of relationships for a while then at the age of 19 him self and “it's nothing that we were going through that caused him to go out got fixed things and got back together again, I got the shock of my life.

I have been in and out of relationships for a while then at the age of 19 made my decision of settle down. I fell in love with a wealthy young but yet still hard working young man. For two years I was living out of state then I made the bold decision of moving back home to be with him. I left behind my work and everything I already had to start all fresh again.

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  1. Neshura

    I apologise, but, in my opinion, you commit an error. I suggest it to discuss.

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