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Yeah, me too. I think it happens a lot, unfortunately. Please help! Here are a few questions I sent her in response.

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I Like Him…What Should I Do?

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The following is a guest post by Michaela. I remember those days. I remember the excitement and nerves and butterflies that assailed me every time he walked in the room.

I remember the nervous feelings I got whenever he talked to me or I talked to him. Is this the one? Yes, many of us have had this happen to us. And many of us let these romantic thoughts and feelings practically rule our lives. But some of us are experiencing all this for the first time and have no idea what to do with all the emotions and craziness going on inside of us. To be honest, some of us who have experienced all this before still have no idea how to handle it all.

No matter which category you fall into, I got you, girl! Having a crush on a guy is fun and exciting, but it can also be very hard and scary. Our culture tells us to let go and wear our hearts on our sleeves, to fall hopelessly in and out of love, regardless of the consequences. Our culture tells us to simply embrace and live in the moment, but doing so could result in life-long problems.

And for the Christian girl, falling headfirst into what our culture says is not okay. It completely disregards what God has to say. So what are we supposed to do then? There are many ways to approach having a crush in a manner that honors God. This post includes affiliate links. Pray for yourself. Or if they do, they do not go according to how we planned it out in our heads. I used to dream about how a conversation with my crush would go, usually ending with him telling me how much he liked me or something like that.

So to keep myself in check, I would pray about it. And He was faithful more than once. When you let your emotions take over, they can leave you in a potentially embarrassing mess. Letting your emotions run all over can leave you irrational in how you handle negative feedback about your crush. You may start to see your crush through blinders, where he can do no wrong and all his actions are justified in some way.

This can lead to dangerous habits and situations later on. The mind is very susceptible to irrational thinking when you are infatuated with someone. This is where fantasizing really comes into play.

You think about imaginary situations with your crush. Usually, it starts out as innocent things like conversations, but then it can cross over into more serious fantasies like making out with him or even having sex. That is wrong and sinful. Ask God to renew your mind so you are able to think clearly about yourself and your crush in ways that are pleasing and honoring to Him. If your heart is not focused on honoring God, then it will lead you to do and think all kinds of evil.

So ask God to give you a pure heart that desires what is good and honorable. All you want to do is think about him and dream about him. But be careful! He can easily become an idol in your life. An idol is anything or anyone that takes up more of your thoughts and time than God.

Make certain your spiritual walk does not suffer and decline when you have a crush. That is another reason you must keep watch over your heart. To stay connected with God, strive to have a consistent quiet time with God.

Read His word. Pray for guidance and for continued spiritual growth. Ask God to help you keep your focus and your heart on Him instead of your crush. Make it your goal to keep God first in everything. Keep your desires in line with God and His word. And trust me, His plans for you are WAY better than your plans for you! When you initially have a crush on someone, seek out an older, wiser woman.

That woman may be your mom, your teacher, or a woman at your church. She will be able to give you advice on how to handle the situation and your emotions, and she will also be able to detect any red flags that you may not be able to see. Their opinion on who you like matters just as much as their opinion on who you date or marry. I always made it a rule to not like a guy if my parents did not approve of him. The advice your mentor or parents give may not be what you want to hear, but it may be in your best interest.

First off, is he even a Christian? If you are a Christian, then a non-Christian guy is completely out of the question, no matter how cute or sweet he is. He cannot encourage or help you in your walk with God. Does he go to church on a regular basis?

Does he seem genuinely interested in God? Does he seek out a deep, meaningful relationship with God? These are all important questions you must ask. Maybe you need to ask him those in general conversation. You may need to simply observe the way he conducts himself.

Is it in a God-honoring way? You can also, discreetly, ask people who know him or your mentors about these things. Most of all, pray for him. Praying for him will help you get your heart and focus in the right place when dealing with him and your feelings. I hope you found these tips and the video helpful and encouraging! God bless! Read more Joy Because Grace guest posts by Michaela. When we are crushing on guys, it can be hard to keep our minds on Christ, as we are instructed to do in Colossians If you would like to study this verse more closely, I created a three-page workbook to help you break it down.

This post has 47 comments. I think somewhere in the back of my heart, I have given up on love. Thank you and God bless you. Cynthia Waka recently posted… Be still and know that I am God.

Thank you. I needed to read this. My heart hurts because I struggle to believe in the concept of marriage for me. It feels impossible. So whenever I get a crush on someone, the eye rolls in my heart become evident. I think I just want to handle this in a way that will honor God. Hi Anna! I have a few questions you should ask myself: 1 What do your parents think? Do they approve of dating at 13?

If so, what do they think about this guy? I ask this one with sincere kindness. Why do you want to be dating right now? Why not wait? Pray about it, talk to your parents and other godly mentors in your life and determine with wisdom what you want to do.

Sometimes he acts as though he likes me but sometimes he won t even check up on me. Am so confused. But my one worry is that he probably is living his life already in college, and he has no interest in befriending High Schoolers. I found this post on your top post section.

This is a well written and very informative article. I totally agree with all your point especially point number 3. Because your elder, usually had a very strong instinct whether you date a good person or not. I was just scrolling and saw your article. I think about it all the time and I get really frustrated.

4 Ways to Handle a Crush

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If you are a Christian single girl or guy, what should you do when you like someone? What are some good Christian dating tips when you just start having feelings for someone but nothing more has happened?

Christian single women often feel trapped by the teachings they find in church. So here are 3 tips if you are a Christian woman who likes a Christian man. Seriously, just talking to him more than you do to other guys will probably be enough for most men to start thinking you like him. The key is to talk to him more than you talk to other people. If you are just naturally social and he sees you talking to other people just as much as you talk to him, he will probably not assume that you are interested in him.

3 Steps to Take When You Like Someone

The following is a guest post by Michaela. I remember those days. I remember the excitement and nerves and butterflies that assailed me every time he walked in the room. I remember the nervous feelings I got whenever he talked to me or I talked to him. Is this the one? Yes, many of us have had this happen to us. And many of us let these romantic thoughts and feelings practically rule our lives. But some of us are experiencing all this for the first time and have no idea what to do with all the emotions and craziness going on inside of us. To be honest, some of us who have experienced all this before still have no idea how to handle it all.

How to Let a Christian Guy Know That You’re Interested

One day she found me in the library of my Alma Mater. She asked to talk with me about something, and we found a place for a private conversation. She confided that she had feelings for one of my friends. She then asked for my advice.

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